“Being the 'best you can be' is really only possible when you are deeply connected to another.

- Dr. Sue Johnson, Clinical Psychologist + Founder, Emotionally Focused Therapy

“Carolyn McIntyre has a remarkable ability to align with her clients in a deeply empathic manner, simultaneously reaching into each partner’s world and validating their experience, while also then gently, with great care, illuminating the negative cycle that keeps them disconnected”

– Michael Moran, LCSW, CST

Have you lost the warmth or spark in your relationship?

Are you tired of reaching for a spouse or partner who doesn’t respond?

Do your fights escalate and leave you both feeling alone and doubtful about being together?

Do you feel like pulling away to calm down?


I can help you feel safer with your partner and understand what leads to disconnection. When we feel real distress in a close relationship we might get angry and become critical or the opposite, withdraw to calm down. I am a Certified EFT Couple Therapist, the second certified EFT couple therapist in Brooklyn. EFT, Emotionally Focused Therapy for couples and families, started by Dr Susan Johnson, is the most researched and successful couple therapy approach.

Contact me today